This is what my dining room looks like. Alexandra created a shrine for the graduates. It is still there. I don't know when they will want to put their possessions away. And I don't care. Every time I enter the house I am greeted by the photos and memories of the last four years. I love it. Every minute of it.
This is the scene which greets me on the other side of the entry. Victoria is getting ready for her next four years. We are buying towels and sheets, pillows and caddies. All the little things that will make her dorm room a cozy home for her and her new friends. Everyone I know keeps asking me about how it feels to be an empty nester. I don't know. It hasn't happened as yet. I know I will do my best to stay centered in every precious moment as my youngest prepares to fly the nest. That's all I can do. And pray. Lots of prayers.
Oh Kath, such bittersweet times. Both photos describe so much but you have SO much to be proud of and SO much to look forward to! Enjoy this time with Tori as she prepares to spread her beautiful wings. What will Stevie be doing next?
My prayers are with you, love. You have created such amazing children. Now it is time to watch and enjoy as they continue to grow. As YOU continue to grow...
Love you,
Deb
Posted by: Debra | July 17, 2011 at 06:39 PM
it is a sweetness, this middle ground. enjoy it and stay as conscious of its magic are you surely are. this is good mother magic. this is of you.
Posted by: Angella Lister | July 18, 2011 at 12:08 AM